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Nancy was struggling to see the positive when ¨çher teen daughter was experiencing a negative perspective on her life and abilities. In her desire to parent intentionally, ¨èshe went into her daughter¡¯s room and noted one positive accomplishment she had observed. ¡°I know you've been having a hard time lately, and you aren't feeling really good or positive about your life. But you did a great job cleaning up your room today, and ¨éI know that must have been a big effort for you.¡± The next day, to Nancy¡¯s surprise, the teen girl seemed somewhat cheerful. In passing, ¨êshe said, ¡°Mom, thanks for saying the positive thing about me yesterday. I was feeling so down and couldn't think of anything good about myself. After ¨ëyou said that positive thing, it helped me see one good quality in myself, and I've been holding onto those words.¡±
1. ³»¿ëÇ®ÀÌ
¨ê´Â NancyÀÇ µþÀ» ÁöĪÇÏ°í ³ª¸ÓÁö´Â ¸ðµÎ Nancy¸¦ ÁöĪÇϹǷΠÁ¤´äÀº ¨êÀÌ´Ù.
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¨ç [Nancy was struggling to see the positive when ¨çher teen daughter was experiencing a negative perspective on her life and abilities.] ¡Østruggle:¾Ö¾²´Ù, ³ë·ÂÇÏ´Ù. ¡Øthe positive:±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ ¸é(=a positive thing(perspective)) ¡Øto see~:¸ñÀûÀ» ³ªÅ¸³»´Â ºÎ»çÀû¿ë¹ý ¡Øa negative perspective:ºÎÁ¤ÀûÀÎ °üÁ¡(perspective:°üÁ¡, Àü¸Á, ¿ø±Ù¹ý) ¡Øpositive:±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ(affirmative)¡ênegative ¡Øon her life and abilities:±×³àÀÇ »ýÈ°°ú ´É·Â¿¡ ´ëÇÑ(on=about), ¡Øher=Nancy ¢ÑNancy´Â ±×³àÀÇ ½Ê ´ë µþ¾ÆÀÌ°¡ ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ »ýÈ°°ú ´É·Â¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ºÎÁ¤ÀûÀÎ °üÁ¡À» °Þ°í ÀÖÀ» ¶§, ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ ¸éÀ» ã¾Æº¸·Á°í ¾Ö¾²°í ÀÖ¾ú´Ù.
¨è [In her desire to parent intentionally, ¨èshe went into her daughter¡¯s room and noted one positive accomplishment (that) she had observed.] ¡Ødesire to parent:ºÎ¸ðÀÇ ¿ªÇÒÀ» ÇÏ·Á´Â ¹Ù¶÷(desire to~:~ÇÏ·Á´Â ¹Ù¶÷, parent:ºÎ¸ðÀÇ ¿ªÇÒÀ» ÇÏ´Ù. ¾ÆÀ̸¦ µ¹º¸´Ù, ºÎ¸ð, intentionally:ÀǵµÀûÀ¸·Î) ¡Ønote:¾ð±ÞÇÏ´Ù. ÁÖÀÇ(ÁÖ¸ñ)ÇÏ´Ù. ¡Øone positive accomplishment:ÇÑ °¡Áö ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ ¼º°ú¹°(accomplishment:¼ºÃë, ¿Ï¼º, ¾÷Àû)¡¡¡¡¡Ø(that):¸ñÀû°Ý °ü°è´ë¸í»çÀÇ »ý·« ¡Øhad observed:(ÀÌÀüÀÇ »óȲ À̹ǷΠ°ú°Å¿Ï·á¸¦ »ç¿ëÇÔ¿¡ À¯ÀÇ) ¡Øobserve:°üÂùÇÏ´Ù(¨Úobservation), ÁؼöÇÏ´Ù(¨Úobservance). ¡Øshe=Nancy ¢ÑÀǵµÀûÀ¸·Î ºÎ¸ð ¿ªÇÒÀ» Á¦´ë·Î ÇÏ°íÀÚ ÇÏ´Â ¹Ù¶÷¿¡¼, ±×³à´Â µþÀÇ ¹æ¿¡ µé¾î°¬°í ±×³à°¡ ¸ñ°ÝÇß´ø ÇÑ °¡Áö ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ ¼º°ú¹°À» ¾ð±ÞÇß´Ù.
¨é [¡°I know you've been having a hard time lately, and you aren't feeling really good or positive about your life. But you did a great job cleaning up your room today, and ¨éI know (that) that must have been a big effort for you.¡± ] ¡Øyou've been having a hard time:³Ê´Â Èûµç ½Ã°£À» º¸³»°í ÀÖ´Ù.(ÇöÀç¿Ï·á ÁøÇàÇü:have been ~ing) ¡Ølately:ÃÖ±Ù¿¡(recently, of late) ¡Øthat must have been a big effort:±×°ÍÀÌ Æ²¸²¾øÀÌ ¸¹Àº ³ë·ÂÀÌ ÇÊ¿ä ÇßÀ» °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ¡ØÁ¢¼Ó»ç (that)Àº ÀÌ¹Ì »ý·«µÇ¾î ÀÖ°í, µÚÀÇ thatÀº µþÀÌ ¹æÀ» û¼ÒÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» °¡¸®Å´. ¡Ømust have p.p:~À̾úÀ½¿¡ Ʋ¸²¾ø´Ù.(may have p.p:~À̾úÀ»Áö ¸ð¸¥´Ù. should have p.p: ~Çß¾î¾ß Çߴµ¥ ÇÏÁö ¸øÇß´Ù. need not have p.p: ~ÇÒ ÇÊ¿ä°¡ ¾ø´Âµ¥ Çß´Ù.) ¡ØI=Nancy ¢Ñ¡°³ª´Â ³×°¡ ÃÖ±Ù¿¡ Èûµç ½Ã°£À» º¸³»°í ÀÖ°í ³× »ýÈ°¿¡ ´ëÇØ Á¤¸»·Î ÁÁ°Å³ª ±àÁ¤ÀûÀ¸·Î ´À³¢Áö ¾Ê°í ÀÖ´Ù´Â °ÍÀ» ¾Ë°í ÀÖ´Ü´Ù. ±×·±µ¥µµ ³Ê´Â ¿À´Ã ³× ¹æ û¼Ò¸¦ ÈǸ¢ÇÏ°Ô ÀßÇس°í, ³ª´Â ±× ÀÏÀÌ Æ²¸²¾øÀÌ ³×°Ô Å« ³ë·ÂÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇßÀ» °Å¶ó´Â °ÍÀ» ¾È´Ù.¡±
¨ê [The next day, to Nancy¡¯s surprise, the teen girl seemed somewhat cheerful. In passing, ¨êshe said, ¡°Mom, thanks for saying the positive thing about me yesterday.] ¡Øto Nancy¡¯ surprise:Nancy°¡ ³î¶ø°Ôµµ ¡Øto one's Ãß»ó¸í»ç: ´©°¡~ÇÏ°Ôµµ ¡Øseemed somewhat cheerful:´Ù¼Ò ±âºÐÀÌ ÁÁ¾Æ º¸ÀÌ´Ù.(somewhat:´Ù¼Ò) ¡ØIn passing:Áö³ª°¡´Â ¸»·Î ¡ØI=Nancy¡®s daugher. ¢Ñ´ÙÀ½ ³¯, Nancy·Î¼´Â ³î¶ø°Ôµµ, ±× ½Ê ´ë ¼Ò³à´Â ´Ù¼Ò ±âºÐÀÌ ÁÁ¾Æº¸¿´´Ù. Áö³ª°¡´Â ¸»·Î ±×³à´Â ¡°¾ö¸¶, ¾îÁ¦ Àú¿¡ °üÇÑ ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ Á¡À» ¸»¾¸ÇØ Áּż °¨»çÇØ¿ä.
¨ë [I was feeling so down and couldn't think of anything good about myself. After ¨ëyou said that positive thing, it helped me see one good quality in myself, and I've been holding onto those words.¡±] ¡Øfeel down:±âºÐÀÌ ¿ïÀûÇÏ´Ù(=feel blue) ¡Øthink of:~¿¡ ´ëÇØ »ý°¢ÇÏ´Ù. ¡Øanything(something,nothing,~body)+Çü¿ë»ç. cf)Çü¿ë»ç+enough. ¡Øhelp+ÙÍ+µ¿¿ø(toºÎÁ¤»ç) ¡Øone good quality:ÇÑ°¡Áö ÁÁÀº ÀÚÁú ¡ØI've been holding onto those words:Àú´Â ±× ¸»¾¸µéÀ» °è¼Ó ºÙµé°í ÀÖ¾ú´Ù.(ÇöÀç¿Ï·áÁøÇàÇü:have been ~ing, hold onto:~¿¡ ¸Å´Þ¸®´Ù, ²À Àâ´Ù(seize and cling to) ¡ØI=Nancy ¢ÑÀú´Â ¸¶À½ÀÌ ³Ê¹«³ª ¿ïÀûÇß°í Àú Àڽſ¡ ´ëÇØ ¾î¶² ÁÁÀº Á¡µµ »ý°¢ÇÒ ¼ö°¡ ¾ø¾ú¾î¿ä. ¾ö¸¶°¡ ±× ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ Á¡À» ¸»¾¸ÇϽŠÈÄ, ±×°ÍÀº Á¦°¡ Àú Àڽſ¡°Ô¼ ÇÑ °¡Áö ÁÁÀº ÀÚÁúÀ» º¸´Â °ÍÀ» µµ¿ÍÁÖ¾ú°í, Àú´Â ±× ¸»¾¸À» °è¼Ó ºÙµé°í(»ý°¢ÇÏ°í) ÀÖ¾î¿ä.¡±¶ó°í ¸»Çß´Ù.
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*perspective:°üÁ¡, ½Ã°¢ *in passing:Áö³ª°¡´Â ¸»·Î *feel down:±âºÐÀÌ ¿ïÀûÇÏ´Ù(feel blue) *hold onto:²À Àâ´Ù, ¸Å´Þ¸®´Ù
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Nancy´Â ±×³àÀÇ ½Ê ´ë µþ¾ÆÀÌ°¡ ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ »ýÈ°°ú ´É·Â¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ºÎÁ¤ÀûÀÎ °üÁ¡À» °Þ°í ÀÖÀ» ¶§, ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ ¸éÀ» ã¾Æº¸·Á°í ¾Ö¾²°í ÀÖ¾ú´Ù. ÀǵµÀûÀ¸·Î ºÎ¸ð ¿ªÇÒÀ» Á¦´ë·Î ÇÏ°íÀÚ ÇÏ´Â ¹Ù¶÷¿¡¼, ±×³à´Â µþÀÇ ¹æ¿¡ µé¾î°¬°í ±×³à°¡ ¸ñ°ÝÇß´ø ÇÑ °¡Áö ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ ¼º°ú¹°À» ¾ð±ÞÇß´Ù. ¡°³ª´Â ³×°¡ ÃÖ±Ù¿¡ Èûµç ½Ã°£À» º¸³»°í ÀÖ°í ³× »ýÈ°¿¡ ´ëÇØ Á¤¸» ·Î ÁÁ°Å³ª ±àÁ¤ÀûÀ¸·Î ´À³¢Áö ¾Ê°í ÀÖ´Ù´Â °ÍÀ» ¾Ë°í ÀÖ´Ü´Ù. ±×·±µ¥µµ ³Ê´Â ¿À´Ã ³× ¹æ û¼Ò¸¦ ÈǸ¢ÇÏ°Ô ÀßÇس°í, ³ª´Â ±× ÀÏÀÌ Æ²¸²¾øÀÌ ³×°Ô Å« ³ë·ÂÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇßÀ» °Å¶ó´Â °ÍÀ» ¾È´Ù.¡± ´ÙÀ½ ³¯, Nancy·Î¼´Â ³î¶ø°Ôµµ, ±× ½Ê ´ë ¼Ò³à´Â ´Ù¼Ò ±âºÐÀÌ ÁÁ¾Æº¸¿´´Ù. Áö³ª°¡´Â ¸»·Î ±×³à´Â ¡°¾ö¸¶, ¾îÁ¦ Àú¿¡ °üÇÑ ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ Á¡À» ¸»¾¸ÇØ Áּż °¨»çÇØ¿ä. Àú´Â ¸¶À½ÀÌ ³Ê¹«³ª ¿ïÀûÇß°í Àú Àڽſ¡ ´ëÇØ ¾î¶² ÁÁÀº Á¡µµ »ý°¢ÇÒ ¼ö°¡ ¾ø¾ú¾î¿ä. ¾ö¸¶°¡ ±× ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ Á¡À» ¸»¾¸ÇϽŠÈÄ, ±×°ÍÀº Á¦°¡ Àú Àڽſ¡°Ô¼ ÇÑ °¡Áö ÁÁÀº ÀÚÁúÀ» º¸´Â °ÍÀ» µµ¿ÍÁÖ¾ú°í, Àú´Â ±× ¸»¾¸À» °è¼Ó ºÙµé°í(»ý°¢ÇÏ°í) ÀÖ¾î¿ä.¡±¶ó°í ¸»Çß´Ù.
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